Next on our our list of revisited leaders is Joel Virgo, leader of Church of Christ the King, Brighton. CCK recently featured live on the BBC, for their Pentecost service. If you missed it,
here it is.
Are are you still leading in the same place?
Yes
What have been the main things you have learnt?
That’s a very difficult question. Here I’ll just say that I have learnt
to persevere and value the power of answered prayer above all other forms of
‘success’. That’s how Jesus defined success (‘fruitfulness’ in John 15) and it
is far more valuable than any other kinds of ‘fruit’, which tend to be
transient at best.
There’s nothing like pressing into God in ministry and know that he has
heard your prayer. The promise of fruitfulness and definite answer to prayer is
worth a lot more than encouraging trends.
By the way, I have not learnt this yet, but it’s still the main thing.
What things have caused you the most frustration and the most joy?
Frustration:
- My own lack
of observable growth in fruits of the Spirit.
- Slow progress
in seeing pagan men truly discipled in my city.
- Common
misinterpretation by other believers when it comes to our attempts to build
missionally.
Joy:
- I love the fact that God has made us promises. Changes the whole game and
makes the burden lighter (though it makes us work harder than ever!)
- I have genuinely begun to love partnering with my wife in prayer – and
some of the work (though I try to guard her from stuff since she already has a
church of 4 kids on her hands).
- Seeing a new team of young and trustworthy and gifted leaders taking
responsibility alongside some giants from the previous generation. Maybe for me
the whole ‘band of brothers’ thing is what makes this job great. I love the men
I work with. They are the best men I know.
- Big risks, big new step – that pay off! Wow! Intoxicating!
What things have caught you by surprise?
When Kate and I moved down here in 2006 there was an existing eldership
of 7 guys. They had basically been the CCK team for 20 years or so. We now have
11 elders and currently 7 others sitting with us. Only 3 of the original team
are still in.
You wouldn’t expect that kind of transition to pass without epic
fallouts and strife. But it did. Why? Lots of reasons, but the main one is that
John Hosier, Dave Fellingham, Peter Lyndon, Terry Virgo (my Dad), Steve Horne,
Alan Preston and Steve Walford each responded to the potentially threatening
changes with grace, faith, wisdom and humility.
Great churches rest on elders who care more about Jesus than their
careers.
How is your church doing?
In many ways we are encouraged. Never gathered more people (about
1,300+), never seen more gospel progress, never given more money. Multisite has
been a blast. Love the way it’s stretching us and getting us moving.
More importantly we sense we’ve got bigger years ahead of us.
But compared to the church I read about in Acts 19, we’re a Micky Mouse
church.